Kissing Scene - Private or Published Collection?

Hi, everyone...

Still writing on to catch up everything left behind before. First of all, I would like to say that this post is NOT meant for someone or certain people. It just only my sharing and personal experience.

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Well, I know that is kinda out of my topic to talk about it. Usually, I just avoid to talking about SARA, but hell ya I'm also a human - sometimes we just want to share what we thinking about kan? #human.

I was born in Indonesia which is having eastern culture. When something like kissing, hug, and other sexual activities are considered as taboo things. Yes, we are state as a democracy but not too 'freedom' enough for expressing everything. We are in middle of that.

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Several days ago, I was publishing my kissing scene in one of my social media. Mostly my friends give us like and congratulated for the big event. But, there is one of my friend comment on that photo, she said the photo should be private collection and it shouldn't publish to my social media.

I lil bit suprised, as long as I using that social media, she rarely comment or interact even communicated with me. Suddenly, she comment me for that photo. Firstly, I just think, 'is it true what she said?', moreover she is a preacher. I thinking a lot before I reply her comment. Should I remove this photo or I just let the photo post? Confused.

But, I decide to preserve my photo posting. Let me tell you the reason why:

• The photo was taken on MY WEDDING DAY. All my guest: old, elderly, young, child, baby, Moslem, Christian, men, women, even both our parents watched the kiss. It wasn't something that we did secretly.
• Cause we did it in public, when witness all of my guest - it's indicate that we did it based on love not for sexual desire or something like that.
• I wearing wedding gown, crown, full make up and hairdo - my husband wearing tuxedo complete with glove and bouquet so it was indicating we celebrate something special. What was it? It was our wedding, our big occasion. So, in special occasion we did our wedding kiss once in our lifetime and the photographer catch it as 'a moment' that should be memorialized.
• I do have a private photo. Just wearing a casual clothes and not in special moment. Am I published it? NO. Cause I know, it's not public consumption, we did it secretly and nobody know. So, I think it something that we kept just only for ourself.

Here, I just want to share my thought about kissing scene. What I thought, my faith, my right, my perspective with how I handle kissing, hug, or sexual activities. I can filter which one can be private consumption which one I can share with everyone or limited with my relatives and friends.

Guys, IMO we can't judge someone good or bad with just only how many he/she doing kissing/sexual activities. Don't be hypocritical, we are human - sexual desire is so human. We were created with that, don't avoid. But, how we face it - it's more important than you just pretend there's not desire in your life. If there is not sexual desire, you couldn't be here. You never born in this world. Please change your mindset and how to face it wisely.

Happy Wedding Kiss!

What do you think? Please share.


Love and Regards,
F.